The Bridesmaid List

Well apparently 22 is the ideal age of marriage in Raleigh or at least among the friend groups I am in. But as these friends of mine are hit with all the crazy duties of making their lists, picking out their dress, they also have the daunting task of choosing their bridesmaids. These girls have to choose out of all their friends the most worthy girls to stand next them on their special day. It's a lot of work. A lot of work I had never thought about. When a friend of mine told me and our other friend once that she needed to become best friends with us because she needed to increase her bridesmaid list I thought she was hilarious, but truthful. I got to thinking about my friend groups and who I would want to spend that special day with me and it's hard. Do I really have a best friend that I would say "she is definitely my maid of honor"? What about those friends who move away that I don't always talk to on a regular basis but I still consider as good friends? What about those friends that I share a bond with but we don't talk all the time? What about those girls whose weddings you were in? Childhood friends? I have nooooo idea. And it's ridiculous that you have to think about all these things. But someone has to and one day or right now you have to choose! Good luck and may the best girls win....